genderoftheday:

Today’s Gender of the day is: Neon lighting in the shape of the word ‘No’ lit up against a blank wall

genderoftheday:

Today’s Gender of the day is: Neon lighting in the shape of the word ‘No’ lit up against a blank wall

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Kanye West for GQ Magazine August 2014 shot by Patrick Demarchelier.

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the-arena-ballerina:

neptunain:

christmas is so much worse as you get older it’s like “what do you want this year?” “a sense of purpose”

"a career" "financial security" "a sex life" "tuition for grad school" "alcohol" "a nap" "socks would be nice"

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doulaness replied to your post “Ok I just quadruple checked my bank account and the money has…”

I’m sure it was a mistake but if worst comes to worst your bank should be able to pull your records and show that the money has been transferred.

I have bank statements showing the money going to the loan company as well, so there’s no way they can claim they haven’t been paid. 

saintthecla replied to your photo “I did answer your gchat! Not with sexy pictures, but with the…”

Tbh I would preferred the pictures

but then you would have compromising pictures of me and I wouldn’t have a post card :(

Ok I just quadruple checked my bank account and the money has definitely been going to my loan payment every month, and I went all the way back to March, when my payment was raised. It HAS to be some sort of clerical error. I just need to call tomorrow & see what’s up. Trying to talk myself down from this state of panic.

Uhhhh I just got an angry letter saying that my student loan is delinquent and will be subject to wage garnishing BUT THE (astronomical amount of) MONEY HAS BEEN COMING OUT OF MY ACCOUNT EACH MONTH and I have literally no idea what’s happening I am so scared and of course I can’t call to straighten it out until tomorrow so there goes any chance I had of sleeping tonight. 

Cue the panic attack.

I did answer your gchat! Not with sexy pictures, but with the information you requested.

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Do you wonder why all the guys you try to date are such assholes?

antiporn-activist:

Summary of studies on “Pornography and Relationship Damage,” helpfully compiled by Mary Anne Layden. Sources appear below.

Adult (>18 years old) exposure to pornographic media is connected with the following results:

1.Rating their partners as less attractive

Weaver, J., Masland, J. L., & Zillmann, D. (1984). Effect of erotica on young men’s aesthetic perception of their female sexual partners. Perceptual and Motor Skills, 58, 929-930.

Zillmann, D. & Bryant, J. (1988). Pornography’s impact on sexual satisfaction.  Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 18, 438-453.   

2. Being less satisfied with their partners’ sexual performance 

Zillmann, D. & Bryant, J. (1988). Pornography’s impact on sexual satisfaction.  Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 18, 438-453.   

3.Greater desire for sex without emotional involvement

Zillmann, D. & Bryant, J. (1988). Pornography’s impact on sexual satisfaction.  Journal of Applied Social Psychology, 18, 438-453.  

4. More sex callousness

Zillmann, D & J. Bryant. (1984). Effects of massive exposure to pornography. In Malamuth, N and Donnerstein, E. (Eds), Pornography and sexual aggression. San Diego, Academic Press.

5. Trying to get partners to act out scenes from pornographic films

Cramer, E. & McFarlane, J. (1994). Pornography and abuse of women. Public Health Nursing, 11, 4, 268-272.

6. Increasing their estimates of how often people engage in sex with violence

Zillmann, D & J. Bryant. (1984). Effects of massive exposure to pornography. In Malamuth, N and Donnerstein, E. (Eds), Pornography and sexual aggression. San Diego, Academic Press.

7. Increasing their estimates of how often people engage in sex in groups

Zillmann, D & J. Bryant. (1984). Effects of massive exposure to pornography. In Malamuth, N and Donnerstein, E. (Eds), Pornography and sexual aggression. San Diego, Academic Press.

8. Going to prostitutes

Monto, M. (1999). Focusing on the clients of street prostitutes: a creative approach to reducing violence against women. Final report for the National Institute of Justice. Available at www.ncjrs.org.

Stack, S., Wasserman, I. & Kern, R. (2004). Adult Social Bonds and Use of Internet Pornography. Social Science Quarterly, 85, 75-88.

9. Greater acceptance of sex outside of marriage for married individuals

Carroll, J. S., Padilla-Walker, L. M., Nelson, L. J., Olson, C. D., Barry, C. M., & Madsen, S. (2008). Generation XXX: Pornography acceptance and use among emerging adults. Journal of Adolescent Research, 23, 1, 6-30. 

10. More likely to have an affair

Stack, S., Wasserman, I. & Kern, R. (2004). Adult Social Bonds and Use of Internet Pornography. Social Science Quarterly, 85, 75-88.

11. Using more sexual terms to describe women

Frable, D. E. S., Johnson, A. E. & Kellman, H. (1997). Seeing masculine men, sexy women and gender differences:  Exposure to pornography and cognitive constructs of gender. Journal of Personality, 65, 311-355.

12. Engaging in marital rape

Simmons, C. A., Lehmann, P. & Collier-Tennison, S. (2008). Linking male use of the sex industry to controlling behaviors in violent relationships: An exploratory analysis. Violence Against Women, 14, 406-417.

 

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